Dating Advice

What to Say to Make Him Find You Irresistible

By Nicole Gayle

If I tell you not to think about the color red, you're going to think about it. This is human nature. We consciously go against what we're told. Understanding this will help you when you relate to men.

Instead of dropping hints about the way you feel or trying to lock your man down, tell him what he wants to hear subconsciously and he'll crave you.

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Anytime you want to get on someone's mind, you've got to tell them the opposite of what feels natural to you. You're chatting with this great guy, you know that the attraction for him is increasing, you're having a great time getting to know him and you want to know how he feels about you.

Too many women are not conscious about what they are doing when they are with a man. They blurt out any old thing...usually along the line of, "I'm attracted to you" or "I think I'm falling in love."

No. No. No.

Not you. Don't you be caught dead saying that crap to a man. It will kill his attraction for you. Men do the same thing when they want to get a woman's attention. They think calling her more, giving her gifts, being more available will get a women to be more interested.

Here's what you can say(in a business tone) the next time he asks you out..."Sure, I'd love to BUT don't fall in love with me, ok?"

If the attraction is present, you WILL get on his mind and possibly BLOW his mind.

Nicole Gayle is the author of the e-book, How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife, written to help you take your man from maybe to "I do" - Be the kind of woman your man HAS to marry.